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How to Comfortably Step Out of Your Comfort Zone

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How to Comfortably Step Out of Your Comfort Zone

“Life begins at the end of your comfort zone.” – Neale Donald Walsch

On Friday night, I went on a date to a country music club.

Yep, you read that right.

A nightclub that plays country music. Think square dancing and cowboy hats.

Now I love to dance, but I’m actually NOT a fan of country music in general, let alone voluntarily listening to it for an entire night. But I AM a fan of new experiences, so I put on my jeans and my heels and went out with an open mind.

(Plus, my date was really cute.)

Turns out, my date was also a country music lover and expert line dancer. I was definitely out of my element. I stood near the bar sipping my bourbon and coke, hoping he didn’t get the urge to join the other couples on the dance floor.

After a while, he looks at me with a boyish grin and asks the question I had been dreading.

“Would you like to dance?”

No, I would not. I would much rather sit here and nurse my drink all night long instead of making a fool of myself in this club.

He stretches out his hand. His face is an open invitation. And his smile just won’t quit.

Okay. Fine. Let’s do this. 

I grab his outstretched hand as he leads me through the crowded club onto the tiny dance floor.

It feels like everyone is staring at us. It could be because I clearly have no idea what I’m doing. Or it could be because we are black. Maybe both. I can’t really tell.

Anyway, a couple minutes into the song (or songs…they all sounded the same to me!), I feel my body relax and decide to let my date lead. I follow his movements and even manage a few decent twirls. Mostly though, I just try not to step on his toes or bump into the other people two-stepping around us.

A few songs later, I’m getting into a groove. The looky-loos surrounding the dance floor disappear for a while and it’s just the guitar, two sets of swiveling hips and a whole lot of laughter.

And you know what? Once I let go of my need to do it “right,” it was actually FUN!

What I learned on Friday, in a room full of country tunes and cowboy boots, is that even with a simple social activity like dancing, it can feel difficult and uncomfortable if you’ve never done it before.

(I’m a textbook Capricorn, after all – with a little bit of “control freak” and “perfectionist” thrown in for good measure.)

More importantly, I realized that it’s much easier to try something new when you have someone to guide you and hold your hand.

Is it time for you to step out of YOUR comfort zone and make some changes in your life?

Wouldn’t it be easier if you had some support during the process?

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